Not every new mum wants the balloons, the bingo and the big reveal. Enter: the nesting party — a gentler, more grounded way to celebrate and support someone preparing to welcome a baby.
Where baby showers are often about games and gifts, nesting parties are all about comfort, calm, and community. Think less “Pinterest-perfect event,” and more “cup of tea, tidy-up help and heartfelt chats.” And yes, it’s a trend we absolutely adore.
What Is a Nesting Party?
A nesting party is a low-key gathering designed to help a mum-to-be prepare physically and emotionally for her new arrival. It’s about showing up, lending a hand, and offering her the kind of support she’ll really value - whether that’s folding newborn clothes, stocking the freezer, or just helping her feel seen and loved.
It’s especially lovely for second- or third-time mums who don’t want a traditional shower but still need a little extra TLC.
Why Nesting Parties Are So Lovely
- They’re intimate and relaxed - perfect for introverted mums or anyone feeling overwhelmed
- They’re focused on the mum, not just the baby
- They create space for real connection - not just passing around nappy cakes
- They feel practical, grounded, and deeply thoughtful
How to Host a Nesting Party
No streamers required. Here's how to create a meaningful, warm gathering that your friend will remember — and genuinely appreciate.
1. Keep It Small
A nesting party is not about a guest list of 30. 4 to 6 close friends or family members is perfect. You want people who’ll ask “What can I do to help?” and mean it.
2. Make It Cosy
Tea, simple snacks, gentle music, and soft lighting go a long way. Create a space that invites relaxation and real conversation.
3. Offer Practical Support
Set the tone with a shared intention: "Let’s do one small thing to help mum nest." This could mean:
- Folding baby clothes
- Organising the changing area
- Setting up her cot or baby nest
- Writing supportive notes she can open postpartum
4. Bring Thoughtful, Calming Gifts
Skip the flashy outfits and go for handmade, useful, and comforting items - like:
- A baby nest for supervised daytime rest
- A soft crochet Moses basket to bring calm to nap time
- A changing basket to elevate the everyday
- A few muslins or soft baby blankets in gentle, neutral tones
Final Thoughts
Nesting parties are about giving new mums what they actually need - quiet support, a little prep, and the feeling that they’re held by their people.
Whether you’re hosting one, attending one, or simply want to gift differently this time around, we’re here to help you make it thoughtful, useful and beautiful.
